At the last meeting, Amanda and I had discussed maybe being able to host something tonight - it looks like that won't work, we've both been overwhelmed with new puppy problems, plus illness. Sorry all.
If people can coordinate on a place to get dinner, we may be able to meet you all there, though no promises (We're not so plague ridden anymore, just really exhausted).
Might I suggest Fireside Grill in salt point? It's a bit of a trek for Pat, but otherwise fairly central. (And even for you, Pat, it's only about 15 minutes from Poughkeepsie).
Otherwise, let us know where you're thinking,